Who Wears the Pants

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I learned something.  Indeed, I think my whole evaluation of a situation has been fairly well upended.  Melania Trump has power.  Actual power.  Donald listens to her and she has the ability in that relationship to put her foot down.  And that is probably my own fault.  It might have been foolish of me to think she was just a prop in that relationship, but I feel like the information we’d had up until now had really led us all to believe that Melania was a toothless figurehead.  Everything, from her cyberbullying initiative, to her all of her “duties” as first lady, have all felt very out of the way.  Things to give her to keep her occupied but otherwise out of the process, unlike first ladies of the past who had more active roles in the administration.  Then Mira Ricardel was ousted.  Mira Ricardel is a diehard Trump loyalist who has been actively helping John Bolton initiate foreign policy to Trump’s satisfaction.  Ricardel is exactly the kind of person Trump wants in his camp, and I can imagine he’s not happy about losing her.  But Melania didn’t want her around, and went public with that knowledge.  For Melania to be able to make that call, and then publicly announce that it WAS her call…Well that is one hell of a power play.  I won’t be underestimating her again.